The 90/10 PRINCIPLE

This was an excellent write up that I came across recently.....It is principle suggested by management guru Stephen Covey.............It will change the way you look at life............

Discover the 90/10 Principle.
It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations).
What is this principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is
decided by how you react.
What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us.
We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which
throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic.
We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the
other 90%.
How? ……….By your reaction.
You cannot control a red light. but you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool
you; YOU can control how you react.
Let's use an example.
You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee
onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened.
What happens next will be determined by how you react.
You curse.
You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in
tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup
too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs
and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy
crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus.
Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your
daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph
speed limit.
After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your
daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20
minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it
continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.
When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse
and daughter.
Why? …. Because of how you reacted in the morning.
Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?
The answer is “D".
You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5
seconds is what caused your bad day.
Here is what could have and should have happened.
Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its ok
honey, you just need to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush
upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time
to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and
waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss
comments on how good the day you are having.
Notice the difference?
Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.
Why?
Because of how you REACTED.
You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was
determined by your reaction.
Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something
negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You
don't have to let the negative comment affect you!
React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a
friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.
How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound
on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off) Do you
curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them?
WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your
drive?
Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
You are told you lost your job.
Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time
into finding another job.
The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take outpour
frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on.
Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It
will just make things worse.
Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results.
You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and
apply this principle.
The result?
Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and
heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
It CAN change your life!!!
Enjoy….

Large Hadron Collider : Are we scripting our ends

IT MUST be unequivocally stated at the outset that the chances of the danger described below actually happening is extremely remote. Having said that, however, it is a fact that two people in the US are pursuing a lawsuit in a federal court in Hawaii to stop scientists from turning on the world's largest particle accelerator later this year. The men believe that the Large Hadron Collider, as it's called, which is capable of recreating conditions that existed a trillionth of a second after the Big Bang could also create a small black hole capable of swallowing up the Earth and, in time, parts of the universe too — if not the whole of it.
   The scientists involved with the construction and deployment of the $8 billion project that has the potential to revolutionise physics and our understanding of the universe, don't deny that black holes might, in fact, be created when the machine's cranked up. But they say these will be microscopic in size and will decay and evaporate in next to no time before any serious swallowing can begin.
   However, a spokesperson of the Collider group also said: "Assuming our wildest fantasies, how much matter can one of these black holes consume in a second, in a year or even in several billion years? A black hole we make would only consume a tiny fraction of a gram of matter from Earth. There's no possibility of causing any damage to the Earth."
   The scientists are almost certainly right — especially since they speak after having addressed such concerns by initiating two safety studies earlier and a third anonymous one last year. N e v e r t h e l e s s , where the well-being of the Earth is concerned (actually its very existence in this case) along with all life on it, no amount of safeguards is too much. One has only to see the havoc of global warming caused by burning fossil fuels indiscriminately to realise that unchecked by-products can have a runaway cascading effect. In this case it won't even be like a factory that can't dispose of its by-product. Instead, the by-product will dispose of the factory — and everything else.
   It is, of course, a grand tribute to human intelligence that scientific endeavour can unlock the ultimate mysteries of the universe and, in doing so, relate itself to the rest of existence. But it would be far more than merely ironic to find that in trying to discover our beginnings we deliver our ends

                                                      Courtesy Economic times.

Mahindra & Mahindra and Tata in race for Jaguar,Land rover

Indian companies M&M and Tata along with an equity company, One Equity, is in race for British brands Jaguar and Land rover. Jaguar and Land rover are two of Britians leading car makers.The two along with Volvo form the Premier Automotive Group(PAG) under Ford. Ford is likely to announce the preferred bidder in December.